If You Think People Change..

If you are one of the morons that think people can actually change... walk right over so I can punch you. (Punching, that is my new thing, but I will get to that.) People don't change... plain and simple. It is human nature to keep repeating the same mistakes or actions over and over again even though you know it is wrong. Even after you have been forced to stop those mistakes or actions, you mentally still want to do them. The same goes with personalities... you can alter them slightly, such as.. be less shy (you will always have that shy person inside), be less angry (but something could potentially spark that anger again), get fatter, thinner, smarter, but.. your personality CANNOT change. A two faced liar will always be a two faced liar.

Why so angry you ask?

Ahhhhh!

There is a woman I grew up with, who as a child was as nasty as they come. NASTY MOTHER F*CKER!  She would purposely get you in trouble by doing something, then lie, saying you had done it, such as, throw sand in your face, start to cry and act hysterical.  I am not exaggerating, trust me. When I was eight years old, my Mom had a birthday party for me. I was allowed to invite all my friends. There was a girl who lived around the corner with her grandmother. No one would play with her (and for good reason). My mother (who has a heart of gold) felt sorry for the little spawn.. of... and asked her to come to the party... my party.. sigh.  Missy  wasn't getting her way so, while we were all in the sandbox, decided to throw sand in my face and when I started to punch her she started to cry, and I got in trouble. She not only got me in trouble but ruined my birthday party (the beginning of the never ending crappy birthday). 

Was that my only run in with this nasty piece of work.  No, all through public school and high school I continued to have run ins with her. Suddenly, she reappeared into my life when she found me via facebook. Eegah! This woman has the same make up and hair that she did in grade nine. I am not exaggerating for the sake of being creative, this girl is stuck in 1980's something. So is her personality. She is the same gossipy, vile creature as she was 20 years ago. While visiting my parents recently, I had a run in with her and it took everything in my will power to not punch her. I had to stand behind her in a line up, she made a rude and unnecessary comments about someone I know (and who is very near and dear to me) and then left very quickly, when she turned and realized I was behind her.  I am usually the one who is very Zen in tense situations, the one who tries with all her might to not let people get to her, but,  I want to throw up every time I think of this person. So that right there folks explains how terrible that person is!

The whole punching thing. I've decided my new way to deal with people, rather than continually let things go till it progressively builds up and I get so angry I could scream, I am going to just punch you when you say or do stupid things. At first it won't be super hard,  just a punch in the arm with a 'that's for being a jerk.' Keep it up and I won't make promises...

Ok.. I feel better now!