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The Ex showed up at work the other day. I was instantly on guard, because the last time I saw him he tried to humiliate me in front of people I work with. (If you need a refresher, check the archives.) We exchanged pleasantries, and he asked if I've had lunch
yet. I say no, and add that it will be awhile before I can go. He says okay, and then tells me he'll be back in a couple of hours to see if I'm free then. Weird.
Time passes, I'm working away and ready to go eat and like a freakin' vampire, the Ex shows up. So, I go have lunch with him. More out of curiosity than anything else. We sit, we eat, we laugh and by the end
of it, I am totally weirded out. At then end of our lunch, he says to me,' We should do this again.' I laugh at him. He looks a little confused and I remind him of our last encounter, where he drunkenly accused
me, at the top of his lungs, of cheating on him. Keep in mind we'd been broken up well over a year at that time. He said to me, and I quote,'But I was drunk. You can't still be upset over that.' What the hell? That's
like saying to the cop you couldn't possible have raped your wife because you love her.
To make a long story short, people do not change. They may make slight alterations in their behaviour to keep their mate, but over time they get lazy and let the masks fall. He didn't take any responsibility for
any of the problems while we were dating, so it stands to reason that he would continue to play the wronged party now.
Why am I still upset over this? I'll tell you why. He hurt me that night when he said all those horrible things to me and about me. Worst of all, he knew they weren't true. He just said them to hurt me. I can't deal with someone so infantile, someone who has been
so sheltered all their privileged life that the first thing they do when something is denied them is attack it. Because that, my friends, is what is wrong with the entire world today.

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What you said!!!

What you wrote about Moving Faeries

You really have alot of issues with those damn faeries. I hear if you feed them alot of sugar. They explode!!! Good Luck! I hope they go away soon!

~Kerrie~

What you wrote about Sarrah's article on the Tattoo Guy!

Sarrah please come back. We miss you!!!

You shouldn't pick on Peter, the poor guy obviously has issues! Big ones! Actually he totally deserves to be picked on!

It is obvious to me that Peter isn't getting any. This is why he is looking at a website geared for Women.

~Kathy

I think Peter is a serial killer. That is my story and I am sticking to it.

Sarrah you crack me up. I love your poem. Can I use it?

A little poem, written by our very talented Sarrah, just for Peter.

My Name is Peter

I wish I could find the porn,

I really like it alot.

I found this website

But, I don't understand it.

Where's the porn?

Dumb ass comment of the month.

Oh great, another fucking lesbian site. Isn't there already enough out there!!!

~Peter

This isn't a comment regarding the Tattoo guy, but it was too good not to post. Please note this came from a male, our guess is he was looking for a porn site. I couldn't respond to him, because he gave us a fake email address. I wonder if these people actually think before they send stuff. Carolina

You guys rock!!! I check in every couple of days to see what is new. When are you gals going to start doing this every day???

Stan: I seen you getting your tattoo. You were such a cunt to the guy! How can you treat people like that? You must be so lonely, because you are such a bitch.

Belinda: You are a very angry person. I can sense so much pain in your aura.

Ben: I am so tired of you women always complaining about men. Give us a break.

Carolina (the one from Shebytehes): For Ben and all of the others like him. We wouldn't complain about men (the lesser species in my opinion), if YOU didn't give use stuff to complain about. If you were perfect (never going to happen), you'd never hear a complaint. Also, the comments about Sarrah being a bitch (I get called a bitch alot too). To us the word Bitch means power. We are called Bitches ALOT, so, this must mean we are verrrrryyyyy powerful women! I guess that means we WIN!!!