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Sticks and Stones May Break Your Bones, But Words Will Always
Hurt Your Self-Esteem
December 6th is Women's Remembrance Day. It's the day when
we all sit around and think about violence against women.
Women's shelters organize bake sales and fund raisers, not
to mention candlelight vigils. (Question: What's the deal
with candlelight vigils anyways? I mean, I see the various
religious symbolisms behind candlelight vigils, but in a secular
context, they just look cheesy and unnecessarily cloying.)
All these events are held on the anniversary of the slaying
of 14 women at the Ecole Polytechnique de Montreal, the engineering
school associated with Universite de Montreal. Because these
women were assassinated back in '89, we now take the opportunity
every year to remember the violence that women face daily:
sexual harassment, physical abuse, etc. The one thing we never
look at, though, is the "intellectual violence" committed
against women by North American society.
For the past four years, my University's various student organizations
have "called attention" to violence against women. Every year
they hand out buttons and discuss domestic violence and sexual
abuse. But they've never taken the opportunity to emphasize
the lack of women in the "hard" sciences such as physics,
math, computer science and engineering. And it's not just
my educational institution; it's all of them.
Now I know what you're saying. You're saying, "What does the
lack of women in the hard sciences and engineering have to
do with violence against women?" Give me a moment and I'll
explain.
The gunman (and he shall remain nameless since I don't believe
in giving free publicity to criminals) targeted women in an
engineering school -- women he felt had too much power
and were taking work away from him. He didn't walk into a
sociology class or a women's studies class. He went directly
to an engineering class, a class where women were already
in a minority because it's not a "traditional" female subject.
And then he killed the women. This wasn't a random act of
violence against women; this was a deliberate act of violence
against women in a non-traditional gender role. And we have
to ask ourselves two questions: (1) Why would a man feel threatened
by women in engineering and (2) Why don't more women enter
engineering to begin with? But rarely, if ever, do students'
groups ask either of these questions. If they at least asked
the second question, they would realize that the answer isn't
that "women don't like math" or something like that; the answer
is much more complex.
I recently got a chance to read a few research articles about
stereotype threat. Stereotype threat refers to how a stigmatized
group reacts when they are faced with stereotypical images
of themselves. I'm not going to go into the details (because
I'm not a social psychologist), but the gist of all this is
that if you expose men and women who are proficient at math
to a set of TV ads depicting women in a stereotypical manner
and then make them take a math test, the women's performance
will be poorer than the men's. However, if the women
and men are shown gender-neutral ads prior to the math test,
the women perform as well as the men. (The men's performance
stays stable over all TV ads.) Apparently the mechanism at
work is that the stereotypical ads remind the women that women
are stereotypically bad at math and this gets internalized
and affects both their self-esteem and their performance.
I won't go into the details, but I'll gladly give you the
citations if you ask for them.
Basically, TV ads depicting women in stereotypical ways affect
the way women see themselves. It affects the way that women
make decisions about who they are in the world. If ads affect
women this way, imagine how they affect girls?
It seems that student organizations and institutions of higher
learning could use Women's Remembrance Day to lobby for real
changes in the way toys, say, are marketed to kids. Engineering
toys, such as Lego and K'Nex, are marketed to boys. Meanwhile,
"ello," a "construction" set which allows the player to create
pink and curvy figurines who go shopping, was conceived specifically
for girls. The ad for "ello" mentions that what the player
can make is only limited by the player's imagination. As long
as the player isn't imagining a spaceship or a skyscraper.
What does this say to girls? Men make spaceships while women
go shopping? And don't even get me started on how engineers
and scientists are always men (or plain-looking, geeky women
with no boyfriends) in movies. Even in my beloved "Harry Potter"
books Hermione, the lone girl, takes a back seat to Ron and
Harry despite the fact that she consistently does most of
the work.
I know that encouraging girls to enter the sciences and engineering
(and changing the way science and engineering is portrayed
in the media and in toy advertisements) is not considered
a "violence against women" issue, but I think it should be.
Sure, discouraging girls from pursuing the pure sciences doesn't
leave a black eye on an individual, but it leaves a giant
black eye on society. This is a form of "intellectual violence"
committed against girls and women. By discouraging girls from
pursuing the pure sciences, we, as a society, prevent girls
from reaching their full intellectual potential and we lose
many great minds, great inventions and great discoveries as
a result. I think it would be a suitable memorial to the 14
women who died all those years ago if we try to break down
the barriers that portray women in the pure sciences and engineering
as weirdos or "men with ovaries."
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